Choosing to add a pet to your family is a big step. Pets add lots of laughter, fun
and companionship to our lives. But, they are also a big responsibility.
Sometimes, adopting a pet may be too much added responsibility at a stressful
time in your life.
Use this quiz to take a moment to assess what’s happening in your life now and
in the near future.
Circle or check the following events that have occurred in your life in the past
6 months. Also count any that you think may occur in the coming 6 months.
- Divorce or break-up of a relationship
- Marriage
- Change in living arrangements – new roommates, moving in with parents, etc
- Move to a new residence
- Pregnancy or new baby
- Longer hours or increased responsibility at work
- Financial concerns
- Children leaving home or moving back home
- Caretaking responsibilities for elderly or ill family member
- Significant changes in family routine
- Death of another family pet
- Disappearance of a pet
- Relinquishment of a pet – given away, brought to a shelter
- Significant health problems of a family member
- Change in working status – family member begins work, changes job or retires
- Frequent travel – business or pleasure
- Limited leisure or free time
- Graduation from high school or college, recently or in the near future
- Disagreement among family members about obtaining a pet
- Also count the number of pets you now have (one aquarium counts as one pet)
Scoring
0 – 3: Your life seems fairly stable. Now is a reasonable time to acquire a new pet.
4 – 6: You have lots of things to juggle and take care of. Although pet ownership
may still work for you, and adult cat, small mammal, or adult, well-trained mellow
smaller dog would probably be more appropriate than a puppy, an active breed of
dog or a kitten.
7 – 10: With all the changes and responsibilities in your life now, adding a pet may
be that last straw. Realistically, you may not have time to care for a pet. Both you
and the animal might be better off if you wail until you life settles down.
More than 10: Acquiring a pet now is not a wise decision. |